BOY WHERE YOU BEEN
I get positive feedback when I do these question answer joints, so this time I really tried to give you one worth reading. I hope you enjoy it. If you don't see a good question please feel free to hit me up bawriter@gmail.com
1. Do you really expect people to believe you have been with so many women?
I really don't care if you believe it or not. Most of the dudes I know have fucked a million girls and most of the girls I know have like three different dudes that they got in rotation. If a dude haven't gotten a lot of pussy he may need to make positive changes in his life. Unless you really don't care and if that is the case I really need you to get some fucking goals.
2. What attracts you 2 a woman?
I have no idea what it is but there is an "It" I remember when I was asked this by different women I would give pretty much the same answer. I like smart girls so I like a woman that if you ask them a question 9 times out of ten they will know the answer. I like women who are confident but not bossy. I am a sucker for eyes, lips, and skin. I like full lips and a pretty smile straight teeth and soft skin. I am more attracted to black women than I am to any other race, but I love women from other countries or women that have several different cultural backgrounds. I am a booty man also you really need to have some backyard for the boy.
3. How many times have you been in love?
I have thought I was in love over a million but really only two times.
4. Has someone ever read anything you wrote about them and got upset?
Yes, very upset. I wrote something about my son's mom and she wasn't very happy about it at fucking all. I gave more information about her than she was comfortable with. There was good that came of it because after she read it she called me and we got all the issues off each others chest. There was some yelling but now we are cool. There have been friends and family members of people that have called asking me to change names or make things a little harder to figure out. My boys have also gotten into some shit because of what I have written. A few guys have gotten divorces and a few girls have had the shit slapped out of them. Once I wrote that my friends lie about "we going out with Breezy" that started a bunch of shit also. So for the record if a guy says that he is going to kick it with Breezy it is true we are going out to grab a few beers and there is a good chance that he may have to call you later and say I had them at some chick's house watching Canadian porn.
5. When I say the word love what comes to your mind?
Family
5a. One word answer you don't want to talk more about that?
No
6. Tell me what about love makes you so quiet?
Hmmmmm…..well I never really figured love out. I have been in what I thought was love but when you add time to the equation I think it was nothing more than me finding someone that I loved having sex with. I fell for bodies and faces not really girls. I was in a relationship that started when I was 19 and I feel sometimes that was the one. But at the time I was too immature I didn't know how to be a man for her. I was only concerned with getting what I wanted not what that person needed. I learned a lot from that relationship, shows me everything I did wrong so being a predator I know when a dude needs to get a woman in a relationship.
7. What do you mean by being a predator and when to get at a woman in a relationship?
The beginning is where most dudes fuck up and women start playing like the Bobby Fischer (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bobby_Fischer) I mean guys like grand gestures to let everyone know that this is my woman and I got this for her. Is that a mistake? No, as long as what you are doing can be continued. If you buy her flowers and candy for no reason every Saturday, you gotta keep doing that. You miss doing that two or three times you are going to hear about it. And if you give a less than what they would consider a good excuse get ready your girl is about to get other options….yeah I like that get other options.
A woman on the other hand will not do shit that she wasn't going to do in the first place. If she normally makes breakfast she will make breakfast, if she normally likes to suck dick she will suck your dick. U understand you are nothing more than an addition to her regular routine. Now if she really digs you then she will go above and beyond. But for most women you got to put in some real work to get to that spot daddy. That bullshit when she came over when you were sick to take care of you. Your ass is sleep on drugs she is over there to see A. If another woman comes over or B. Find out if another woman has already been over there….O yeah if a woman is at your crib turn your phone off and put it under your pillow or mattress. Don't just leave it on the table besides the stand, think people think. Sorry lets move on to another question
8. You don't seem to trust women, is that the case?
Not the case at all, I trust people to always have their best interest at heart. It is a person's nature to make sure they can get most of what they want before they just start giving up the "Prince Charming" fantasy. I trust women to be just like everyone else to get what they can get and keep it moving.
9. Some woman did a number on you didn't they?
No more than the next guy. Don't worry I have given a few women grief.
10. Since you have so much advice for men why don't you put something out there for the women?
I can't teach Jordan how to play ball. Really most women enjoy that I tell dudes stuff like this because they have said it a million times but it doesn't sink in. How many times have you told someone don't start doing what you can't keep up? I just said the same thing but I made it clear for the average dude to be like "Damn, I get that phrase now."
10. What is it like to be in a relationship with you?
It's interesting because it takes a lot to really even get close to me. I dated a girl for over a year and I told her that I had a brother that was killed at a club one weekend (never happened, I just heard some dude got shot at a club and told her it was my brother.) I told her that I was going home for the funeral and I never called her again. That was after a year. There is a girl I almost married that thinks my middle name was Abraham…again never happened. I don't know I just don't like people knowing enough about me to hurt me...Yeah that is it.
11. So you just lie all the time?
I use to lie about stuff that didn't matter like I have a buddy that says his middle name is French …….this dude dad and mom are from Canton, MS and you telling people you got a French middle name c'mon. That is one of those it really doesn't matter and if it ever does I'll clear it up.
12. Don't you think that a relationship should be started with honestly?
Sure but when was the last time you were totally honest with a dude that you just met? That shit never happens you lie about if you are seeing someone or the status of the relationship you are in. I am not trying to say that women are the only ones who lie, men lie also but I don't think you should put your hand on a bible until real shit starts in a relationship. Until then it's just somebody cool to go out to eat with and fuck.
13. How do you feel about the president?
He is a gangster; this dude took the election and started a fight with a country just so he and his people could get rich off oil and government contracts. Then they are all moving to Dubai. It all comes down to making money. I will not really speak on this but I heard something on the fucking Simpson's that I cannot quit thinking about. Homer asked why would Fox the television station that is known for shows that are totally left wing owned by the same company that owns Fox News. Think about that Bart Simpson and Bill O'Riely get a check from the same place.
14. Who do you look up too?
People who own their own businesses are the shit to me.
15. Why is that?
Because they dictate how much they will make and they give others jobs. You will always learn more working for a private owner than working for a large company. The guy in business for him self has everything from networking experience to the craft itself. Always remember kids no one will pay you like you pay your self.
16. Do you have your own company?
Hell no I need insurance, do you know how much that shit cost? LOL I am setting everything up but I am going to keep my job also that way I can get vested and have a retirement set up ya dig…
17. Why don't you write as much as you once did?
Busy, and I am not as inspired as I use to be. It's my fault because I have not been pushing myself, to create. The best way to create is to a constantly surround yourself with people that are artist also. Secondly try to always visit and people who amaze you. They don't have to be an elder statesman but just the cool uncle or the cool cousin that you hardly get to talk too. If you have an arsenal of family, friends, a view of your world and people who are focused you should be able to do anything.
18. How do you feel about a few of the controversial things going on with rap music? People saying that Hip Hop is Dead and the N word?
Okay, FIRST AND FOREMOST if you don't buy what you consider good hip hop from STORES, not the car wash not borrowing a copy from your boy so you can download it. If you don't BUY what you and only you call GOOD HIP HOP from the stores and go and support these people at the concerts, then don't ask what's wrong with the music, because you are what's wrong with the music.
Secondly, I think that there needs to be an understanding from the East Coast about the West and the South. Although Rap Music came from the East out west and down south is where you really saw cats starting the independent rap labels. Those two coasts drove around and sold it out of car trunks. So you gave them the art but like any artist will tell you today make sure your business is together before you do anything. I don't think it is right that so many artists from the east coast have to suffer because they were not where they needed to be with their contract knowledge. But that should push you to get at these young cats and tell them what they need to know. When you are great at passing knowledge real knowledge not the knocking down of cats just getting their hustle on that is how you become a legend. I think that if coast really got together and started doing more than just singles together I mean started owning venues and their own independent stations not only would hip hop reap the benefits but all of music will.
Third…….If you live in an area of the US that has small business owners that sell music you should support them. Because when you go to a discount chain store they put whoever in the music department and when you go there and ask something as simple as "Hey man I want to hear some Hip Hop beats but I want some new shit" I think the person working in the music department should be able to point you towards the new Alchemist beat cd or my personal favorite Donuts by J Dilla. to give you a jewel if you leave your knowledge to people who don't give a fuck about you what do you think you are going to learn. Step up quit being a bitch and get fucking grown. You may save three bucks but really man if you spend that $3 you can get a cd the information on the hot spot to go out to listen to that type of music and some earlier recordings and some rare material. But if you don't spend your money on what you consider good music don't be mad at what's on the radio just like if you didn't vote and you could I don't think you have a right to trip on the president.
Point number four, Hip Hop is constantly be broken down into more and more categories. You have the East Coast sound and you have the southern sound and then you have the west coast and the mid west sounds. From there you have the old school and the new school rap. Now let's break down each of the elements that I have mentioned. It may be true that all music has new and old school, but most people have to agree that if you don't listen to Rock and Roll it may be hard to tell what part of the WORLD a band hails from. You also see the respect that so many other genres of music have for those that paved the way. They separate us because it's easier for them to pick us apart when we have internal conflicts within the music. It's fantastic rap music out there, but you have to take it upon yourself to find good music. Invest in what you put into your soul I guess that is the best way to put it. If you don't care what comes out of you then fuck what you put into it.
And lastly, the word Nigga well I'll just say that I think it is almost impossible to ask someone to stop using a word unless you change the life of that person. Maybe we can change what the word nigga means. That way we can keep saying it but we have to open it but in doing this changing of the meaning of the word we have to let everybody use it. So I'll toss in my definition of the word Nigga to see if it is picked up. Nigga means a person that is blessed with mental and physical greatness. A nigga is born of non-white ancestors responsible for all great literary, engineering and musical advancements through out the world. And a nigga is a person of dignity and respect to be praised and honored for the hardships that they have had to face. Yeah I like that being the meaning of Nigga but if you got something better hey let me know. I am a nigga that will gladly be corrected. Hey, Richard Pryor didn't stop saying nigga till he visited Africa. Maybe if the people of color had enough resources to travel and see what the world has to offer they would not only stop saying nigga they would forget the word even existed. But if I asked you today to stop saying the world Starbucks if you drink coffee or the word pussy if you worked in the porn industry, that shit cant happen. Until the environment that gave that word life is no longer in existence Niggas they are here to stay.
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Tuesday, May 29, 2007
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