Friday, July 07, 2006

advice

One of the worst mistakes one can make is to have too much of your business known by people that do not have your best interest at heart. That sounds like common sense but honestly that is one of the largest hurdles on the road to success. The hardest part about this life is being able to identify real people in your life from those who pose as friends. This ability usually comes with maturity, but if you are honest with yourself you know when you see traits of fake friends and the ones who are really there for you. You see the little things like the reaction in their face when things are going well for you that don’t have anything to do with them. You see what a man is by how he treats those that are of no consequence to his own well being. You see people like that rarely have the best intentions of the team. They will ride the coattails of who ever gets them to where they want to be, but the second they feel they don’t need you they reveal how they really feel about you. This is very common in men, and trust me most people born with dicks are men by label only. Men have much bigger bitch tendencies than any women I know.
If your hustles are the kind that shall we say bend the law in any way, shape, or form you are forced to build relationships sometimes. You do so because often you can’t get from A to D without dealing with B and C. In a perfect world you if you treat people fairly and pay them what they have earned, you should be square. Sounds simple but the life of a person that gets money from any sort of illegal enterprise is always going to be more stressful than that of a person who does not. You see because people in this life are weak by nature they don’t see the benefit of not being seen. They don’t see that if no one knows your strengths they can’t possibly figure out your weaknesses. You see often we must work with people who share our hunger but issues normally arise when they don’t share your code of living. Because that is the case, many people spend years looking for a team that not only wants to have money but they love the process itself of getting money. You see to really get to that top of whatever you are doing you have to love it. You have to spend that time working on your strengths and more importantly you weaknesses. Work and pain if you know someone who is willing to go through these things, you now have determining factors of your real friends. Also they will support when it’s hot and tell you when it sucks.
Learn how to keep people in the dark and if they get any money make them feel as if they are getting more than you. If they feel superior they are less likely to try and stop you. Like I said before if they don’t know what you got they don’t know what you don’t have either. Another important thing is to understand when relationships have served their purpose and when it’s time to move on. Work constantly on what ever gives you joy and money if your friends don’t get it fuck them. Real niggas that are really with you will support anything that you are on that especially if it’s positive. You see everyone wants to party very few people want to do everything that is needed to make a party happen. That requires sweat, thought and occasionally not looking like the one in charge. You see every person has to realize that in some situations you have to be a Chief but many you have to be an Indian. Less are willing to stay around and help clean up after the party. This is just was on my mind I hope it gives whoever insight to those who need it. Now I got this shit out of my head and remember keep your fucking mouth closed, stays focused on your money, and keep your business to yourself. Holla

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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

so true one of life's lessons some of us learn late in life,"Everyone who says they are your friend are not"
If so then they would truly be supportive and have your back in your endeavors and if it is a team thing then each person would be content in their position and not be so consumed with what they dont have and what you have.

i can say that i learned who is for me and i dont mind that i have a small group of intimate friends
that shows me who i can really count on

Anonymous said...

SUPER POST!! @ first I said Brad must not have written this because it does not have a curse word as every other word (stop that!)....this statement is so true:

Another important thing is to understand when relationships have served their purpose and when it’s time to move on.

We must learn to stop holding on to draining relationships.The only relationship that we must continue to cultivate is the one we have with God but otherwise let folks go!! I could go on and on but I want...this really blessed me.